In Memory of Bud Gresham, my Papa

My story would not be close to complete without this man. Ralph "Bud" Gresham and his Wife Julie took me and raised me for the first 9 years of my life. The influence he had on my life has made me who I am today. Papa, as I called him, had been my hero, 2nd father, and playmate for years. I learned that family members are not always related by blood, but by heart. 15 years of my life has passed and every moment has carried part of his influence with it. If I am blessed with many more, his legacy will live with me. He was a servant, serving our great country, his community, and family. Kind and soft-spoken, everyone enjoyed his presence. Children loved to test his patience and adults loved to consume his wisdom. I do not have a bad memory of him, he always left good ones, the type that left you with a smile. Tears are brought to my eyes as I type this but I am immensely thankful for his influence and life. He was a gift from God. I will miss him very much, there is no doubt. 

However, he lives on, his soul in Heaven and his legacy here on earth. By God's grace and mercy I will be reunited with the man who helped lead me to Christ and taught me principles that make me a better young man. Papa, save me a spot close to you in Heaven. With love, Your Godson 

Jacob